(I'm sorry Zen, but this issue needs to be brought to light.)

For as long as I've known him, Ian has been nothing but rude to me. Back when I identified as genderfluid, he made fun of it, called it a non existent identity, when in fact, it is a real gender identity. Now, while I don't identify as genderfluid anymore, he still calls how I identify non existent. Ian is what I call a genderphobe. He refuses to acknowledge genders other than male and female, and calls them non existent. Ian is an extremely problematic person.

Now, not many people are aware of an event in the shout box that happened yesterday. I can't explain it all in words, but essentially Ian was harassing and bullying me. He was also dead naming me, calling me Kayden after I politely asked everyone to not call me that anymore.

The screenshots I do have of the event show Ian being rude. Like I said, Ian has been nothing but rude to me ever since I first met him.





A little context is needed for that one. Orbay said, "I miss my generation, when people had clean arms and legs."



I wasn't threatening anything, if anything I was extremely close to actually committing to my words because of his toxicity. Ian has actually caused me to bring harm to my body because of his toxic words and actions. It's exactly because of people like Ian that I left this community in the first place.

-Miko

Hi Kiyoshi, Ian has had a reputation for being rude to other people in the community, and has been told to wind his neck in. Ian Will be delt with, and he will have to face a punishment.

But What I would like to point out is that, if there is a user bullying you or being very inappropriate to what you believe in, report it here At
https://damenspike.com/cbars

CBARS is an alternative way to report users without the means of making a discussion, you can report anonymously (even though there is no point now)

Ian will be delt with, but i advise you next time to report it on cbars instead of a discussion, as that is the only place where Admins and Moderators can sort things out without other users getting involved.

If Ian is the direct reason to you commiting self harm, then my advice is for you to leave the community on a break, until Ian has been delt with (cause I assure you, this will be sorted)

Hopefully this helps,

As Eiven said, please make a CBARs report and then mail me. We don't want public call outs on forums as it only makes tensions worse.