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12th July 2015, 03:19 AM
Milly Drake wrote on 12th July 2015 03:02 AM:
Uhm, May, that post was a bit, dramatic.. And, some people like drama, some don't. (I don't) Please try not to keep talking about this, because I saw it in moods, now it's in discussions, sorry if that sounded a little mean, wasn't meant to, but okay. Thanks, ~Mills~
To me it's another issue you have here. Talking of such things should never be wrong to discuss about. A dramatic post, indeed, for I am a dramatic person. Why can't we talk of such things? I am trying to help the people who know others who have depression, if you read the whole thing you would know I talk about how to help solve someone's depression. Not to mention I am also stating my own opinion.
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12th July 2015, 02:39 AM
I;m going to make a discussion on emotional pain. I really don't want to put that much effort into this community anymore, but I feel this really needs to be explained to some of you. No offense, but some of you have the thickest of skulls, don't understand the truth, and try to act perfect on here like I once did.
First topic: Depression.
Ive been through incidents where people make fun of people who have cuts on there arms. (Yes, this is all experiences that have happened HERE.) Don't you dare say a word. Don't you mock them for trying to get attention. Whatever you do, don't me cliche, please.
Why do people cut themselves? Part of it is for attention. But they do it because they are showing they need HELP. They need the attention to keep themselves alive. I have never cut, but I have thought about killing myself. I have other harming OCD issues I need to stop.
One thing that annoys the hell outta me is what I am going to discuss next. So sometimes, there are people, who make posts with super fancy graphics and colored words, and every single one of those words is bolded. Each paragraph is basically repeating itself, trying to make it look fancy, but some people have made posts about "depression." Most of the time people who have made these posts never have had severe depression because their take on it is absolutely easy. Wow, I wish getting over depression was THAT easy!
One common thing that is said is, "Think of the people who have it much worse"
Now, that would be helpful, if you are complaining and pouting, but with depression, that has NO AFFECT ON YOU WHATSOEVER. SO DON'T TELL ANYONE WHO IS DEPRESSED THAT CRAP. IT DOES NOTHING!
If you truly think that will help someone through depression, you are ignorant to how depression feels. People want to kill themselves for many different reasons. My reason? I didn't want to feel pain anymore. So associate something with not feeling pain. Like laughter, make them laugh. They don't think they are worth it? Don't just tell them they are worth it, DO SOMETHING for them to SHOW them they are worth it.
Don't just utter useless words. SHOW THEM. You can do it, even online.
Next: Emotional Pain
Ok many times I see on here is "oh if ur not forgiven then shame on them they need to forget the past!!!"
True statement, but it depends on what they did. Forgiving is not easy, Don't take forgiving as an understatement thanks.
Bye.
First topic: Depression.
Ive been through incidents where people make fun of people who have cuts on there arms. (Yes, this is all experiences that have happened HERE.) Don't you dare say a word. Don't you mock them for trying to get attention. Whatever you do, don't me cliche, please.
Why do people cut themselves? Part of it is for attention. But they do it because they are showing they need HELP. They need the attention to keep themselves alive. I have never cut, but I have thought about killing myself. I have other harming OCD issues I need to stop.
One thing that annoys the hell outta me is what I am going to discuss next. So sometimes, there are people, who make posts with super fancy graphics and colored words, and every single one of those words is bolded. Each paragraph is basically repeating itself, trying to make it look fancy, but some people have made posts about "depression." Most of the time people who have made these posts never have had severe depression because their take on it is absolutely easy. Wow, I wish getting over depression was THAT easy!
One common thing that is said is, "Think of the people who have it much worse"
Now, that would be helpful, if you are complaining and pouting, but with depression, that has NO AFFECT ON YOU WHATSOEVER. SO DON'T TELL ANYONE WHO IS DEPRESSED THAT CRAP. IT DOES NOTHING!
If you truly think that will help someone through depression, you are ignorant to how depression feels. People want to kill themselves for many different reasons. My reason? I didn't want to feel pain anymore. So associate something with not feeling pain. Like laughter, make them laugh. They don't think they are worth it? Don't just tell them they are worth it, DO SOMETHING for them to SHOW them they are worth it.
Don't just utter useless words. SHOW THEM. You can do it, even online.
Next: Emotional Pain
Ok many times I see on here is "oh if ur not forgiven then shame on them they need to forget the past!!!"
True statement, but it depends on what they did. Forgiving is not easy, Don't take forgiving as an understatement thanks.
Bye.
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11th July 2015, 07:31 PM
Damen wrote on 11th July 2015 07:34 AM:
Hey,
During the next 2 stages of the game of mods, it is really appreciated if one or more of you took pictures and wrote reviews (they dont have to be big ones) so that we can put this in the Wiki later on without forgetting everything that happened (like last season).
Thanks!
During the next 2 stages of the game of mods, it is really appreciated if one or more of you took pictures and wrote reviews (they dont have to be big ones) so that we can put this in the Wiki later on without forgetting everything that happened (like last season).
Thanks!
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11th July 2015, 01:34 AM
We're in the same boat, buddy. Everyone hates us! 
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10th July 2015, 07:55 PM
Freddy wrote on 10th July 2015 07:51 PM:
May23 said on 10th July 2015 07:27 PM:
Freddy said on 10th July 2015 06:38 PM:
May23 said on 10th July 2015 06:01 PM:
Lemonade said on 10th July 2015 05:02 PM:
This is a really nice post Freddy, and it's obvious that you mean it. Tbh in my opinion you really aren't bad, you're just being yourself? I mean, you're still a kid, and you're going to have to be a kid when you want to. Mistakes are made in life like you said. But now you know, you will never be perfect
May23 said on 10th July 2015 04:41 PM:
Thanks for apologizing. I would like a personal apology for the damage that you done to me. It hurt. It's hard to forgive you.
He seriously just made a post saying sorry to you all. He also even said this:
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I am trying to change my ways, so please, don't judge me for my past and give me yet another chance to change. If you don't forgive me it is alright, but remember I will forgive you. Thanks for reading,
CHill
Obviously you don't understand what happened, then. If he can't give me a personal apology, then I cant forgive him. I want him to know what he did to me. Obviously, Lemon, you have no idea what he did to me and what the situation did to me.
I didn't give you a personal apology for many different reasons, for one it will take me a while to contact everyone and give them an apology and it is harder since I got no way to contact but forums. Also it will be basically wasting my time and energy because some people won't forgive me and it's alright if they don't. This is an apology for everyone and I am not forcing anyone to forgive. You done things to me too and I forgiven you for them. This is a fresh start for everyone that I done wrong to and if they don't want to forgive and be my friend it's okay and not much of my lost.
But the thing is, I havent done anything to you. It shouldnt be that easy as "sorry everyone"
Im sorry but I can't forgive you quite yet, I think a personal apology for everyone you hurt badly is NEEDED. Maybe the people who you didnt bother can forgive you easily, but not the people who you left scars on.
I said you didn't HAVE to forgive me. Please just stop commenting on the post, it's over. You are trying to start drama for no apparent reason. I apologized so be happy I did. It was the mature thing to do in my opinion and you are being immature by trying to start problems.
Freddy said on 10th July 2015 06:38 PM:
May23 said on 10th July 2015 06:01 PM:
Lemonade said on 10th July 2015 05:02 PM:
This is a really nice post Freddy, and it's obvious that you mean it. Tbh in my opinion you really aren't bad, you're just being yourself? I mean, you're still a kid, and you're going to have to be a kid when you want to. Mistakes are made in life like you said. But now you know, you will never be perfect
May23 said on 10th July 2015 04:41 PM:
Thanks for apologizing. I would like a personal apology for the damage that you done to me. It hurt. It's hard to forgive you.
He seriously just made a post saying sorry to you all. He also even said this:
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I am trying to change my ways, so please, don't judge me for my past and give me yet another chance to change. If you don't forgive me it is alright, but remember I will forgive you. Thanks for reading,
CHill
Obviously you don't understand what happened, then. If he can't give me a personal apology, then I cant forgive him. I want him to know what he did to me. Obviously, Lemon, you have no idea what he did to me and what the situation did to me.
I didn't give you a personal apology for many different reasons, for one it will take me a while to contact everyone and give them an apology and it is harder since I got no way to contact but forums. Also it will be basically wasting my time and energy because some people won't forgive me and it's alright if they don't. This is an apology for everyone and I am not forcing anyone to forgive. You done things to me too and I forgiven you for them. This is a fresh start for everyone that I done wrong to and if they don't want to forgive and be my friend it's okay and not much of my lost.
But the thing is, I havent done anything to you. It shouldnt be that easy as "sorry everyone"
Im sorry but I can't forgive you quite yet, I think a personal apology for everyone you hurt badly is NEEDED. Maybe the people who you didnt bother can forgive you easily, but not the people who you left scars on.
I said you didn't HAVE to forgive me. Please just stop commenting on the post, it's over. You are trying to start drama for no apparent reason. I apologized so be happy I did. It was the mature thing to do in my opinion and you are being immature by trying to start problems.
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10th July 2015, 07:27 PM
Freddy wrote on 10th July 2015 06:38 PM:
May23 said on 10th July 2015 06:01 PM:
Lemonade said on 10th July 2015 05:02 PM:
This is a really nice post Freddy, and it's obvious that you mean it. Tbh in my opinion you really aren't bad, you're just being yourself? I mean, you're still a kid, and you're going to have to be a kid when you want to. Mistakes are made in life like you said. But now you know, you will never be perfect
May23 said on 10th July 2015 04:41 PM:
Thanks for apologizing. I would like a personal apology for the damage that you done to me. It hurt. It's hard to forgive you.
He seriously just made a post saying sorry to you all. He also even said this:
Quote:
I am trying to change my ways, so please, don't judge me for my past and give me yet another chance to change. If you don't forgive me it is alright, but remember I will forgive you. Thanks for reading,
CHill
Obviously you don't understand what happened, then. If he can't give me a personal apology, then I cant forgive him. I want him to know what he did to me. Obviously, Lemon, you have no idea what he did to me and what the situation did to me.
I didn't give you a personal apology for many different reasons, for one it will take me a while to contact everyone and give them an apology and it is harder since I got no way to contact but forums. Also it will be basically wasting my time and energy because some people won't forgive me and it's alright if they don't. This is an apology for everyone and I am not forcing anyone to forgive. You done things to me too and I forgiven you for them. This is a fresh start for everyone that I done wrong to and if they don't want to forgive and be my friend it's okay and not much of my lost.
Lemonade said on 10th July 2015 05:02 PM:
This is a really nice post Freddy, and it's obvious that you mean it. Tbh in my opinion you really aren't bad, you're just being yourself? I mean, you're still a kid, and you're going to have to be a kid when you want to. Mistakes are made in life like you said. But now you know, you will never be perfect
May23 said on 10th July 2015 04:41 PM:
Thanks for apologizing. I would like a personal apology for the damage that you done to me. It hurt. It's hard to forgive you.
He seriously just made a post saying sorry to you all. He also even said this:
Quote:
I am trying to change my ways, so please, don't judge me for my past and give me yet another chance to change. If you don't forgive me it is alright, but remember I will forgive you. Thanks for reading,
CHill
Obviously you don't understand what happened, then. If he can't give me a personal apology, then I cant forgive him. I want him to know what he did to me. Obviously, Lemon, you have no idea what he did to me and what the situation did to me.
I didn't give you a personal apology for many different reasons, for one it will take me a while to contact everyone and give them an apology and it is harder since I got no way to contact but forums. Also it will be basically wasting my time and energy because some people won't forgive me and it's alright if they don't. This is an apology for everyone and I am not forcing anyone to forgive. You done things to me too and I forgiven you for them. This is a fresh start for everyone that I done wrong to and if they don't want to forgive and be my friend it's okay and not much of my lost.
But the thing is, I havent done anything to you. It shouldnt be that easy as "sorry everyone"
Im sorry but I can't forgive you quite yet, I think a personal apology for everyone you hurt badly is NEEDED. Maybe the people who you didnt bother can forgive you easily, but not the people who you left scars on.
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10th July 2015, 06:01 PM
Lemonade wrote on 10th July 2015 05:02 PM:
This is a really nice post Freddy, and it's obvious that you mean it. Tbh in my opinion you really aren't bad, you're just being yourself? I mean, you're still a kid, and you're going to have to be a kid when you want to. Mistakes are made in life like you said. But now you know, you will never be perfect
May23 said on 10th July 2015 04:41 PM:
Thanks for apologizing. I would like a personal apology for the damage that you done to me. It hurt. It's hard to forgive you.
He seriously just made a post saying sorry to you all. He also even said this:
Quote:
I am trying to change my ways, so please, don't judge me for my past and give me yet another chance to change. If you don't forgive me it is alright, but remember I will forgive you. Thanks for reading,
CHill
May23 said on 10th July 2015 04:41 PM:
Thanks for apologizing. I would like a personal apology for the damage that you done to me. It hurt. It's hard to forgive you.
He seriously just made a post saying sorry to you all. He also even said this:
Quote:
I am trying to change my ways, so please, don't judge me for my past and give me yet another chance to change. If you don't forgive me it is alright, but remember I will forgive you. Thanks for reading,
CHill
Obviously you don't understand what happened, then. If he can't give me a personal apology, then I cant forgive him. I want him to know what he did to me. Obviously, Lemon, you have no idea what he did to me and what the situation did to me.
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10th July 2015, 04:41 PM
Thanks for apologizing. I would like a personal apology for the damage that you done to me. It hurt. It's hard to forgive you.
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10th July 2015, 12:40 AM
Matthewvacc wrote on 10th July 2015 12:20 AM:
You know how much time staff members spend on Oldcp and how much they work to ensure the safety and happiness of the users... I'm sorry but telling people who commit most to all of their free time trying to do their job to the best of their ability that they're not doing it well or good enough can be taken very wrong and affects the feelings of those who do so. I find this post very offensive
But, if it is truth, it needs to be spoken.
Though saying "deez nutz" isn't wrong, it is just a popular trend.
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9th July 2015, 02:59 PM
HELLO
Harry Potter is BAE
Im sharing with you my favorite scenes from The Deathly Hallows P. 1 & 2. NOT ALL OF THEM just some... Seriously, one of my favorite of the Harry potter series- the books, and the movies!
SPOILER ALERT- contains spoilers.
These darned video bb coding better work
OKAY WELL IT DIDNT WORK. SO HERES THE LINKS. UHGGGG
https://youtu.be/IKkXED4M1PE
https://youtu.be/tYbkRq6Iw7I
https://youtu.be/fYlF_TfzrR8
https://youtu.be/fYlF_TfzrR8
Harry Potter is BAE
Im sharing with you my favorite scenes from The Deathly Hallows P. 1 & 2. NOT ALL OF THEM just some... Seriously, one of my favorite of the Harry potter series- the books, and the movies!
SPOILER ALERT- contains spoilers.
These darned video bb coding better work
OKAY WELL IT DIDNT WORK. SO HERES THE LINKS. UHGGGG
https://youtu.be/IKkXED4M1PE
https://youtu.be/tYbkRq6Iw7I
https://youtu.be/fYlF_TfzrR8
https://youtu.be/fYlF_TfzrR8
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9th July 2015, 02:48 PM
You should talk to Cheep, Lady of the Bank. She will sort things out for you.
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8th July 2015, 10:58 PM
Tennis wrote on 8th July 2015 10:52 PM:
The one main rank rule is so there aren't like five users who have all the ranks.
Also making a post about you not getting a rank definitely (or defiantly) doesn't help your chances.
Also making a post about you not getting a rank definitely (or defiantly) doesn't help your chances.
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8th July 2015, 10:24 PM
Swirlie wrote on 8th July 2015 10:19 PM:
Yes, and you should be happy with any rank(s) you have. Good post May. +1
Yes because complainers are just that annoying.
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