Most people change to be popular, to fit in, to be someone else. But I'm here to say: don't do that. People change for a good reason or for a bad reason, sometimes they change randomly. When people grow up they change of course. My sister was always nice and playful and one day, she changed. To be more specific, she changed in a bad way. She always said no to me when she always said yes. She always used to talk to me at night, but she stopped for some reason. I asked her straight up 4 years later. Her excuse was: "People change when they grow up. That's just how life works. You can't do anything to stop it." She said. I didn't know what to respond to that. Yes people do grow up. She said when teenage girls reach a certain age they change in a rebel sorta way. I never wanted to change like she did. She was stubborn, and always did bad. She wanted freedom. I'm older than her, yet she acts this way. My mom said that most teenage girls do that with a certain age. 25% of the teenage girls stay normal. 75% they be a rebel and want freedom. Don't think that when you reach a certain age you have to act as a rebel since you can't do anything to stop this. Actually its their life choice that made them this way, not fate. Be yourself that's how people want you to be. People have a hard time with their identities in life. Even me. Here is what I have to say:" Be yourself cause life as you know it will change forever. No matter what is within your spirit let it burst in creative ways and let people see your self for who you are, and not what you want to be. You will forsake your self when you get caught in a lie of your fake personality. Don't change yourself to please yourself or others. Be yourself to reach success in life. For there is no greater goal than your own personality." yours truly-design4real

I promise I read this all the way, I'm just a fast reader. Also, I loved this post so much. People try to change to fit in but that's not right. It'ss better to have a different personality than others.

It's true that people change when their older, but I'm staying with the 25% club.
Some people who change in a bad way just because they want to be in the cool crowd isn't cool.
Even if it's their life, I'm not about that life.
- Choc

Me either. I don't care about statistics unless I'm backing up some stuff to prove stuff. This statistics is so unfair but I'm 25% all the way.

How are you not Wise?

I personally agree with this post. It is way better to have different personalities. People aren't always going to fit in.

But you also shouldn't NOT change your entire life, because change is a good thing. Just change in the right way, and you'll be all good.

I agree. on different personalities. I like different. I think different is cool and I think normal is boring, but that's my opinion. People see normal people when they go somewhere . But they only see the surface of the outside. They are different in the inside. Embrace who you are! Don't be afraid of what people are gonna say. Don't hide who you are, its only gonna make you bottled up forever.