I have had conflict with many friends, more than you imagine. I have a sister which causes me to be the third wheel type. Since school started for many of you, I wanted to right some advice that you may need for high school drama or middle school judgement. School also holds knowledge, judgement, conflict, etc. Trust me, anything can happen. If your two best friends are having a all out war, and they want you to choose which of them is right, then your stuck like glue. I hate to choose between my best friends, some fights between them are harmless and you know they will sleep on it, the other half can be all out mean. Here are some few tips: 1. Never favor one of your friends, because the other one will just want to prove she or he can prove you wrong. 2. Never choose a side between the war, it will cause more conflict and it will take longer to solve. 3. Put your foot down, a friendship shouldn't end over the littlest things. 4,. If your torn between sides, and one of your friends have a point, still don't choose a side. There will always be a logical side and a what's the point side. 5. try to say this to both of your friends: "I won't choose a side. You guys are my best friends. Do you really want to end a whole worth of friendship over a disagreement? I don't. You guys are worth equally the same to me. No matter what, I love you and support you both. But I don't support fighting." Say that. Don't say anything else, cause words are tricky and they mean something a lot. 6 Be careful with your words when it comes to friendship, you might end a entire friendship over one word, yeah words are powerful enough to do that. Stick with these easy steps and you'll be find. yours truly design4real

This is so good. I read all of it. Design, you truly deserve Wise. I am so proud of you.

Thanks Amandapink30! I'm so happy about my oldcp community getting inspired about this sort of everyday of advice. You should read my wisdom posts and take action and make someone's day.

Design4real wrote on 30th August 2015 02:25 PM:

I have had conflict with many friends, more than you imagine. I have a sister which causes me to be the third wheel type. Since school started for many of you, I wanted to right some advice that you may need for high school drama or middle school judgement. School also holds knowledge, judgement, conflict, etc. Trust me, anything can happen. If your two best friends are having a all out war, and they want you to choose which of them is right, then your stuck like glue. I hate to choose between my best friends, some fights between them are harmless and you know they will sleep on it, the other half can be all out mean. Here are some few tips: 1. Never favor one of your friends, because the other one will just want to prove she or he can prove you wrong. 2. Never choose a side between the war, it will cause more conflict and it will take longer to solve. 3. Put your foot down, a friendship shouldn't end over the littlest things. 4,. If your torn between sides, and one of your friends have a point, still don't choose a side. There will always be a logical side and a what's the point side. 5. try to say this to both of your friends: "I won't choose a side. You guys are my best friends. Do you really want to end a whole worth of friendship over a disagreement? I don't. You guys are worth equally the same to me. No matter what, I love you and support you both. But I don't support fighting." Say that. Don't say anything else, cause words are tricky and they mean something a lot. 6 Be careful with your words when it comes to friendship, you might end a entire friendship over one word, yeah words are powerful enough to do that. Stick with these easy steps and you'll be find. yours truly design4real

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This is a lovely post, make more!