15th September 2015
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Holding grudges & Forgiving people

Made by Mystic Kacket in Wisdom

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15th September 2015, 01:41 PM

Greetings!

I am going to talk about forgiving people when they make terrible mistakes.

Should we always forgive people??
No, You shouldn't always forgive people. If you simply can't forgive
them for what they've done, Don't. Sometimes mistakes
just can't be cleared up, Even if they are a good friend. Sometimes friends
don't forgive when you make a mistake and they go on with a friendship. But those
friendships are never the same.

Making Mistakes is like a mess you have to clean up; Sometimes its
too big of a mess to clean.
We have all made mistakes. When you are in a dilemma to forgive someone
or not, Think of the times when they have forgiven you. And
if they have not for given you for mistakes, Then I probably still
would forgive them, Being honest.
But Being honest again, I never quite forgive my friends.
Sometimes a mistake is like breaking a bone; and it can't be fixed.
When you have done something truly bad, You can never
quite fully get forgiven. For example, Your friend tells somebody
who you have a crush on. Its an okay mistake. You can forgive,
But sometimes you can't. You can sometimes be humiliated.
And Alot of the time you are, Especially when you get rejected.

Holding Grudges.

Holding Grudges isn't a good thing. It shows you have a mean
side, And It shows you can't forgive anyone.
The definition of Grudge;

''Be resentfully unwilling to give or allow something
Credits to google ;D

Holding grudges says to other people ''Don't make mistakes, Or I won't be your friend.''
This post is not saying ''Never hold grudges''.
What I'm trying to say here is, Just hold grudges when something has really hurt
you. If It hasn't hurt you inside and you are just holding a grudge to show off,
Don't hold a grudge, because it doesn't show you are a lovely nice person.
Hold a grudge, Hold a grudge and don't show it, or just don't hold a grudge
At all.

Thankyou for reading!

-Becky
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15th September 2015, 02:41 PM

broken bones can be healed just like a broken heart can be healed. nice post.
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+1 by Queenblue
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15th September 2015, 03:24 PM

i like this. i most of the time am the one running back to friends after they bresk up our relationship. it tears me apart. sometimes i doht forgive people. but i once forgave a bully. after i told her that its not nice and her friend is a bad influence, she then stopped and i have a very nice relationship with my friends now.
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15th September 2015, 03:43 PM

I dont like to forgive people but that is deep.
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