Lets move to the rhythm of the water
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4th October 2015, 04:40 PM
Its sad to think not all friendships last forever. Even I don't like the thought of it.
We usually only have few fears in friendship. Like, not lasting forever, or, turning against you, bullying you, etc. I've had some people come to me about bullying in real life, and I got to say, hearing those stories, were so harsh. I'd hate to imagine those stories will come true for me.
Some one (not saying who), said that she trusted her friends, and they turned on her, and started bullying her, in real life. She said she won't trust anyone again, internet people, or real people.
She wanted to move, but I said: "There is gonna be bullies in every school. You can't run away from it. Don't let fear and failure ruin your life." . Then, she came offline, and I had no idea how to solve it, then the next day, I consulted with some one, to get ideas. And, Then I told the person who I consulted with, my idea, and she said that might actually work. The girl who got bullied Hasn't been online in a week.
How do you know if your friendship is true? Here is tips to that answer: 1. If he/she gets you to do peer pressure, then he/she is not a true friend. 2. If your friend is making you do bad choices, avoid those choices, and stop hanging out with that friend. That friend is not a true friend. I don't care if he/she is cool, and popular, just avoid the friend. 3. If your friend or best friend made some bad choices, and she is crying, its not the time for "I told you so" talk, just comfort her, don't abandon her in a time of need . 4. When you start to make a friend, then a few months later a lot of rumors start about you, ask the person who told you those rumors, and it might be your friend.
5. Don't share your personal, private, super secret, secrets to your friend, wait a year or a couple of months, until you can trust him/her . Don't let a heartache hurt you from thinking clearly, a true friend sticks by you, no matter what. Yours truly~Design4real
We usually only have few fears in friendship. Like, not lasting forever, or, turning against you, bullying you, etc. I've had some people come to me about bullying in real life, and I got to say, hearing those stories, were so harsh. I'd hate to imagine those stories will come true for me.
Some one (not saying who), said that she trusted her friends, and they turned on her, and started bullying her, in real life. She said she won't trust anyone again, internet people, or real people.
She wanted to move, but I said: "There is gonna be bullies in every school. You can't run away from it. Don't let fear and failure ruin your life." . Then, she came offline, and I had no idea how to solve it, then the next day, I consulted with some one, to get ideas. And, Then I told the person who I consulted with, my idea, and she said that might actually work. The girl who got bullied Hasn't been online in a week.
How do you know if your friendship is true? Here is tips to that answer: 1. If he/she gets you to do peer pressure, then he/she is not a true friend. 2. If your friend is making you do bad choices, avoid those choices, and stop hanging out with that friend. That friend is not a true friend. I don't care if he/she is cool, and popular, just avoid the friend. 3. If your friend or best friend made some bad choices, and she is crying, its not the time for "I told you so" talk, just comfort her, don't abandon her in a time of need . 4. When you start to make a friend, then a few months later a lot of rumors start about you, ask the person who told you those rumors, and it might be your friend.
5. Don't share your personal, private, super secret, secrets to your friend, wait a year or a couple of months, until you can trust him/her . Don't let a heartache hurt you from thinking clearly, a true friend sticks by you, no matter what. Yours truly~Design4real
Lets move to the rhythm of the water
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