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22nd October 2015, 04:03 PM
Hi guys! I wanted to do this wisdom post, to help users and advise them. So, here are my thoughts and opinions:
Other people see us different then we see ourselves. How can we change how they see us? That's the most hard part. People usually judge us on what we look like, act like, and talk like.
The use terms like nerd, jock, prep, etc. A lot of people can bully us because of our personality.
But why? Why you? Why any of you guys? Bullies find what you like the most about your self, and turn into something bad. They see potential in you, and they find you as a threat.
Are you sick and tired of bullying? Well, I am. Even though bullying isn't allowed in some schools, it isn't allowed by me. How can you take a stand without getting in trouble? Here is ways that you can help. Here is ways that you can help the bullies, and person who is getting bullied :
~What to do to the bully~
First of all, never ever fight or do "physical gestures" to the bully even though he or she might deserve it. When you see the bully, bullying on some one else, talk to the bully and say: "I don't appreciate you doing this to (enter name here) . This isn't the way to go. If you continue, I'm going to talk to his/hers parents or guardians, or to a trusted adult about this issue. Stop now, before I take charge. This isn't right. And, you know it. Stop, and think before you do, it will haunt you forever. Make room for the future. Instead of the past. Please Stop." .
~What to do if you see some one getting bullied~
We mostly want to keep our voice to ourselves. Some of us are shy not to stand up or tell some one, or we just feel like we are going to make it worse if we do . Believe it or not, it will get worse if we don't act fast. Don't stay silent if you see some one getting bullied harshly, or mentally, or crying because of it. If your a best friend or friend to the person who is getting bullied, run and go to the principal's office as quick as you can, or to vice principal. Be a friend and help your best friend or friend get peace and quiet instead of bullying and torture . She or he deserves better.
The Otherside is seeing through the person who is getting bullied, or seeing through the bully.
Never ever get revenge on the bully. Even if they do deserve it. If you start revenge, it won't end, and when it eventually does, it will end in tears, trust me. Revenge might seem a good idea at the time, but trust me, it never is. It hurts your friends and even yourself. Don't sit and take advantage, stand and speak up, that's when the real voice kicks in ~Design4real
Other people see us different then we see ourselves. How can we change how they see us? That's the most hard part. People usually judge us on what we look like, act like, and talk like.
The use terms like nerd, jock, prep, etc. A lot of people can bully us because of our personality.
But why? Why you? Why any of you guys? Bullies find what you like the most about your self, and turn into something bad. They see potential in you, and they find you as a threat.
Are you sick and tired of bullying? Well, I am. Even though bullying isn't allowed in some schools, it isn't allowed by me. How can you take a stand without getting in trouble? Here is ways that you can help. Here is ways that you can help the bullies, and person who is getting bullied :
~What to do to the bully~
First of all, never ever fight or do "physical gestures" to the bully even though he or she might deserve it. When you see the bully, bullying on some one else, talk to the bully and say: "I don't appreciate you doing this to (enter name here) . This isn't the way to go. If you continue, I'm going to talk to his/hers parents or guardians, or to a trusted adult about this issue. Stop now, before I take charge. This isn't right. And, you know it. Stop, and think before you do, it will haunt you forever. Make room for the future. Instead of the past. Please Stop." .
~What to do if you see some one getting bullied~
We mostly want to keep our voice to ourselves. Some of us are shy not to stand up or tell some one, or we just feel like we are going to make it worse if we do . Believe it or not, it will get worse if we don't act fast. Don't stay silent if you see some one getting bullied harshly, or mentally, or crying because of it. If your a best friend or friend to the person who is getting bullied, run and go to the principal's office as quick as you can, or to vice principal. Be a friend and help your best friend or friend get peace and quiet instead of bullying and torture . She or he deserves better.
The Otherside is seeing through the person who is getting bullied, or seeing through the bully.
Never ever get revenge on the bully. Even if they do deserve it. If you start revenge, it won't end, and when it eventually does, it will end in tears, trust me. Revenge might seem a good idea at the time, but trust me, it never is. It hurts your friends and even yourself. Don't sit and take advantage, stand and speak up, that's when the real voice kicks in ~Design4real
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27th October 2015, 01:21 PM
Design4real wrote on 22nd October 2015 04:03 PM:
Hi guys! I wanted to do this wisdom post, to help users and advise them. So, here are my thoughts and opinions:
Other people see us different then we see ourselves. How can we change how they see us? That's the most hard part. People usually judge us on what we look like, act like, and talk like.
The use terms like nerd, jock, prep, etc. A lot of people can bully us because of our personality.
But why? Why you? Why any of you guys? Bullies find what you like the most about your self, and turn into something bad. They see potential in you, and they find you as a threat.
Are you sick and tired of bullying? Well, I am. Even though bullying isn't allowed in some schools, it isn't allowed by me. How can you take a stand without getting in trouble? Here is ways that you can help. Here is ways that you can help the bullies, and person who is getting bullied :
~What to do to the bully~
First of all, never ever fight or do "physical gestures" to the bully even though he or she might deserve it. When you see the bully, bullying on some one else, talk to the bully and say: "I don't appreciate you doing this to (enter name here) . This isn't the way to go. If you continue, I'm going to talk to his/hers parents or guardians, or to a trusted adult about this issue. Stop now, before I take charge. This isn't right. And, you know it. Stop, and think before you do, it will haunt you forever. Make room for the future. Instead of the past. Please Stop." .
~What to do if you see some one getting bullied~
We mostly want to keep our voice to ourselves. Some of us are shy not to stand up or tell some one, or we just feel like we are going to make it worse if we do . Believe it or not, it will get worse if we don't act fast. Don't stay silent if you see some one getting bullied harshly, or mentally, or crying because of it. If your a best friend or friend to the person who is getting bullied, run and go to the principal's office as quick as you can, or to vice principal. Be a friend and help your best friend or friend get peace and quiet instead of bullying and torture . She or he deserves better.
The Otherside is seeing through the person who is getting bullied, or seeing through the bully.
Never ever get revenge on the bully. Even if they do deserve it. If you start revenge, it won't end, and when it eventually does, it will end in tears, trust me. Revenge might seem a good idea at the time, but trust me, it never is. It hurts your friends and even yourself. Don't sit and take advantage, stand and speak up, that's when the real voice kicks in ~Design4real
Other people see us different then we see ourselves. How can we change how they see us? That's the most hard part. People usually judge us on what we look like, act like, and talk like.
The use terms like nerd, jock, prep, etc. A lot of people can bully us because of our personality.
But why? Why you? Why any of you guys? Bullies find what you like the most about your self, and turn into something bad. They see potential in you, and they find you as a threat.
Are you sick and tired of bullying? Well, I am. Even though bullying isn't allowed in some schools, it isn't allowed by me. How can you take a stand without getting in trouble? Here is ways that you can help. Here is ways that you can help the bullies, and person who is getting bullied :
~What to do to the bully~
First of all, never ever fight or do "physical gestures" to the bully even though he or she might deserve it. When you see the bully, bullying on some one else, talk to the bully and say: "I don't appreciate you doing this to (enter name here) . This isn't the way to go. If you continue, I'm going to talk to his/hers parents or guardians, or to a trusted adult about this issue. Stop now, before I take charge. This isn't right. And, you know it. Stop, and think before you do, it will haunt you forever. Make room for the future. Instead of the past. Please Stop." .
~What to do if you see some one getting bullied~
We mostly want to keep our voice to ourselves. Some of us are shy not to stand up or tell some one, or we just feel like we are going to make it worse if we do . Believe it or not, it will get worse if we don't act fast. Don't stay silent if you see some one getting bullied harshly, or mentally, or crying because of it. If your a best friend or friend to the person who is getting bullied, run and go to the principal's office as quick as you can, or to vice principal. Be a friend and help your best friend or friend get peace and quiet instead of bullying and torture . She or he deserves better.
The Otherside is seeing through the person who is getting bullied, or seeing through the bully.
Never ever get revenge on the bully. Even if they do deserve it. If you start revenge, it won't end, and when it eventually does, it will end in tears, trust me. Revenge might seem a good idea at the time, but trust me, it never is. It hurts your friends and even yourself. Don't sit and take advantage, stand and speak up, that's when the real voice kicks in ~Design4real
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