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30th October 2015, 02:14 PM
Hi guys! What inspired me to write (or type) this post is something that needed to be heard. It may help some of you who really need to listen. So here I go:
Have you ever felt like your in someone's shadow? In their shoes? In their spotlight?
I bet you have before at least one time or never. It's usually called jealousy. Or hidden in some.
I made this story, and it's about advice and how you feel when it strikes, but its fiction, I make up some short stories based on life events that may or may not happened to me, but happened to somebody else. Here I go:
Behind the Blinds with a Shadow.
Hi! My name is Lilly Vender . I'm fourteen years old, and well, this is my story.
My sister Beth Vender has been good at everything. She is still doing it as well.
I started making some friends a few days ago, Beth said I should start if I want to make friendship.
Then yesterday I heard my friends saying this when I brought up the trust topic: "Lilly, we can trust you." Ally said as she ate her lunch. "Give me a reason why." I countered as I started at my half eaten sandwich. "Your Beth Vender's sister. She's always been trusted. If I can trust her, I can trust you." Ally said with a approving nod.
Then that brings me back to today. They only trust me because I have a trusted sibling or some one that I'm best friends with. I feel so alone. I know a lot of people go through this, yet they never say how you end it. Weird.
(back to my post). I'm sure this happened to some of you guys. Behind the curtains watching some one in the spotlight. It can sting big time. But, how do you get rid of it? Here is somethings to try: If you overthink or even think about jealousy it can half consume you. Shake the feeling off, avoid feeling it. But, when you do feel it, think and say to yourself: Natural feeling, but what you do with jealousy isn't what your supposed to do. Stay calm, I wanted that spot on that team, but I'll support my best friend to see her happy. It might not go that easy, but, it helps. I've felt jealous and out numbered way too many times, but I never let it get the best of me. Don't do revenge or hide your feelings. If you know some one going for something you did have a chance at, don't ruin it for her/him or try to put them down, instead, support them, they'd do the same thing to you. And, if they do get the spot, or win, don't feel bad, sometimes people are good at somethings than others. But don't gloat. And, you can try again some other time. Just laugh and smile when you don't get it, Life did that for a reason. And, a good one at that. Don't feel behind the blinds with a shadow, feel full of light casting a shadow. ~Design4real
Have you ever felt like your in someone's shadow? In their shoes? In their spotlight?
I bet you have before at least one time or never. It's usually called jealousy. Or hidden in some.
I made this story, and it's about advice and how you feel when it strikes, but its fiction, I make up some short stories based on life events that may or may not happened to me, but happened to somebody else. Here I go:
Behind the Blinds with a Shadow.
Hi! My name is Lilly Vender . I'm fourteen years old, and well, this is my story.
My sister Beth Vender has been good at everything. She is still doing it as well.
I started making some friends a few days ago, Beth said I should start if I want to make friendship.
Then yesterday I heard my friends saying this when I brought up the trust topic: "Lilly, we can trust you." Ally said as she ate her lunch. "Give me a reason why." I countered as I started at my half eaten sandwich. "Your Beth Vender's sister. She's always been trusted. If I can trust her, I can trust you." Ally said with a approving nod.
Then that brings me back to today. They only trust me because I have a trusted sibling or some one that I'm best friends with. I feel so alone. I know a lot of people go through this, yet they never say how you end it. Weird.
(back to my post). I'm sure this happened to some of you guys. Behind the curtains watching some one in the spotlight. It can sting big time. But, how do you get rid of it? Here is somethings to try: If you overthink or even think about jealousy it can half consume you. Shake the feeling off, avoid feeling it. But, when you do feel it, think and say to yourself: Natural feeling, but what you do with jealousy isn't what your supposed to do. Stay calm, I wanted that spot on that team, but I'll support my best friend to see her happy. It might not go that easy, but, it helps. I've felt jealous and out numbered way too many times, but I never let it get the best of me. Don't do revenge or hide your feelings. If you know some one going for something you did have a chance at, don't ruin it for her/him or try to put them down, instead, support them, they'd do the same thing to you. And, if they do get the spot, or win, don't feel bad, sometimes people are good at somethings than others. But don't gloat. And, you can try again some other time. Just laugh and smile when you don't get it, Life did that for a reason. And, a good one at that. Don't feel behind the blinds with a shadow, feel full of light casting a shadow. ~Design4real
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30th October 2015, 02:32 PM
Design4real wrote on 30th October 2015 02:14 PM:
Hi guys! What inspired me to write (or type) this post is something that needed to be heard. It may help some of you who really need to listen. So here I go:
Have you ever felt like your in someone's shadow? In their shoes? In their spotlight?
I bet you have before at least one time or never. It's usually called jealousy. Or hidden in some.
I made this story, and it's about advice and how you feel when it strikes, but its fiction, I make up some short stories based on life events that may or may not happened to me, but happened to somebody else. Here I go:
Behind the Blinds with a Shadow.
Hi! My name is Lilly Vender . I'm fourteen years old, and well, this is my story.
My sister Beth Vender has been good at everything. She is still doing it as well.
I started making some friends a few days ago, Beth said I should start if I want to make friendship.
Then yesterday I heard my friends saying this when I brought up the trust topic: "Lilly, we can trust you." Ally said as she ate her lunch. "Give me a reason why." I countered as I started at my half eaten sandwich. "Your Beth Vender's sister. She's always been trusted. If I can trust her, I can trust you." Ally said with a approving nod.
Then that brings me back to today. They only trust me because I have a trusted sibling or some one that I'm best friends with. I feel so alone. I know a lot of people go through this, yet they never say how you end it. Weird.
(back to my post). I'm sure this happened to some of you guys. Behind the curtains watching some one in the spotlight. It can sting big time. But, how do you get rid of it? Here is somethings to try: If you overthink or even think about jealousy it can half consume you. Shake the feeling off, avoid feeling it. But, when you do feel it, think and say to yourself: Natural feeling, but what you do with jealousy isn't what your supposed to do. Stay calm, I wanted that spot on that team, but I'll support my best friend to see her happy. It might not go that easy, but, it helps. I've felt jealous and out numbered way too many times, but I never let it get the best of me. Don't do revenge or hide your feelings. If you know some one going for something you did have a chance at, don't ruin it for her/him or try to put them down, instead, support them, they'd do the same thing to you. And, if they do get the spot, or win, don't feel bad, sometimes people are good at somethings than others. But don't gloat. And, you can try again some other time. Just laugh and smile when you don't get it, Life did that for a reason. And, a good one at that. Don't feel behind the blinds with a shadow, feel full of light casting a shadow. ~Design4real
Have you ever felt like your in someone's shadow? In their shoes? In their spotlight?
I bet you have before at least one time or never. It's usually called jealousy. Or hidden in some.
I made this story, and it's about advice and how you feel when it strikes, but its fiction, I make up some short stories based on life events that may or may not happened to me, but happened to somebody else. Here I go:
Behind the Blinds with a Shadow.
Hi! My name is Lilly Vender . I'm fourteen years old, and well, this is my story.
My sister Beth Vender has been good at everything. She is still doing it as well.
I started making some friends a few days ago, Beth said I should start if I want to make friendship.
Then yesterday I heard my friends saying this when I brought up the trust topic: "Lilly, we can trust you." Ally said as she ate her lunch. "Give me a reason why." I countered as I started at my half eaten sandwich. "Your Beth Vender's sister. She's always been trusted. If I can trust her, I can trust you." Ally said with a approving nod.
Then that brings me back to today. They only trust me because I have a trusted sibling or some one that I'm best friends with. I feel so alone. I know a lot of people go through this, yet they never say how you end it. Weird.
(back to my post). I'm sure this happened to some of you guys. Behind the curtains watching some one in the spotlight. It can sting big time. But, how do you get rid of it? Here is somethings to try: If you overthink or even think about jealousy it can half consume you. Shake the feeling off, avoid feeling it. But, when you do feel it, think and say to yourself: Natural feeling, but what you do with jealousy isn't what your supposed to do. Stay calm, I wanted that spot on that team, but I'll support my best friend to see her happy. It might not go that easy, but, it helps. I've felt jealous and out numbered way too many times, but I never let it get the best of me. Don't do revenge or hide your feelings. If you know some one going for something you did have a chance at, don't ruin it for her/him or try to put them down, instead, support them, they'd do the same thing to you. And, if they do get the spot, or win, don't feel bad, sometimes people are good at somethings than others. But don't gloat. And, you can try again some other time. Just laugh and smile when you don't get it, Life did that for a reason. And, a good one at that. Don't feel behind the blinds with a shadow, feel full of light casting a shadow. ~Design4real
Very wise post. Some may say it is too wise for just an wise one.. You deserve Most wise.
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