Love



Many people on the DSGHQ are in a relationship with someone, but love can come in many other forms than just dating someone. Some users take love to the furthest extent when others don’t know anything about love. I hope you actually learn something.


What is Love?


I want to put this in my own words, love DOESN’T mean that you’re in a relationship, it’s a strong source of love, don’t get me wrong, but it isn’t the only source of love. For example, there’s family, most of you have known your family for all of your life, meaning that they cared for you since the beginning; they have been there for you the whole time. There is also a form of love called friend love, like you love someone like they’re family, I know I feel like that with all of you. This one is usually the one that most of you care about the most at your age on here, hopefully.


How to obtain Love?


Trust me, being single doesn’t mean you have no love life, it may seem like that since people around you are getting boyfriends/girlfriends but you don’t need one to have love. You may not already know but you have been loved by someone who matters in your life, your family. You are loved by your friends. Even if you feel alone and unloved over something that happened, there’s always someone, someone important, guiding you in the direction of your destiny. There is always someone who cares for you. The word love can be over-used and at this age, most of the time it is when it comes to your significant other. You don’t NEED love. You need someone who cares about you and has been with you to love you, this can be anyone, it doesn’t need to be a boy/girl you like. If you feel like you are trying too hard to find someone, you don’t need to try, someone will find you and you have your family and friends.


Something I always used to do in these wisdom posts is add in quotes, for me quotes inspire me to move forward in a direction I didn’t think of before, it could inspire you or this part could just be useless, anyways it’s how I add my special touch on these posts.


Quotes


“You don't love someone for their looks, or their clothes, or for their fancy car, but because they sing a song only you can hear.” -Oscar Wilde


“Love isn't something you find. Love is something that finds you.” -Loretta Young


“Having someone to love is family.” - Some person on Tumblr