Alright, many people are judge by the looks and not what's inside, but why do this happen? Because some knows that how we dress it's how we feel, but it could be wrong. This happens in every single place around the world and we do it sometimes also.

Why do we always judge before meeting the person?

The answer is kind simple actually, but a bit complicated in some occasions. When we see someone pretty everyone thinks that's a nice person, but like a quote says...

Quote:

Never judge a book by its cover, but only what's inside.

You may see the person and think that he/she is nice, but later on you'll find that he/she isn't nice. While the ones that are mostly judge are sometimes the nicest kind of people that one could ever have, but it depends on how you pick them also!

What did I mean by ''... it depends on how you pick them...''?

What I meant by that was that you can either do: choose by how they are by heart or choose by first look without thinking it true. But there's also kinda a twist here when it comes to choosing, but what?

Our friend's opinion can also affect us when it comes to picking, how? Because they might had been friend before and know what's that person like or try to lie about them. So sometimes when it comes to choosing friends it's kinda complicated also because we can't disrespect someone's opinion. So we always come to the hardest part of choosing a friend. Will you trust your oldest friend and decide? Or ignore them and become friends which you ''might'' regret it.

Now the attitude may also fool people or not. Because appearances and attitude are connected so much that it might fool anyone! One may be shy, quiet and lonely, but outside it's completely a different attitude! We all are kinda like coins, why? Because we are 2 faced and we can flip into a different side in just seconds.

How are we 2 faced?

Simple, it's because we may be calmed at first, but that one little comment makes us go freaking mad. Or it's the other way around the situation, so that's what it means by 2 faced.

But there's some that are only one faced and never changes so fast into the other side. The ones that doesn't get fool easily by words so easy, since they know that how can they know something if the person never saw the real one. This kind of people are mostly because they have experience with it and know that they can't say really anything that hurts you, since they don't know you.

There's more about this, but I got this far by 1 AM for me, so there might be a part 2 or not. That is if I remember to make it and finish what I started. Just remember appearances may fool, but it never last. While you're with those friends that really help you and are there for you, then you might make the right choice. And even tho you may have fallen for it with the wrong group of friends there's always going to be one that helps you get up.


Experience is sometimes the best teacher there is, even if it's painful. I'm not walking down it alone because I know that I got friends right besides me and helping me along the way.